After my last Boy Diaries Part 1,and Boy Diaries Part 2.. I would like to make another stand on the male species.. or rather a negative stand.
I think it completely rare that at any point a girl would be able to find a guy who is even close to not being ‘guy-like’. What do i mean……. Men have this incoherent and ridiculous behaviour of taking everything at ease - especially when it comes to matters of the heart, where they just couldn’t care less about how you the girl feels over a particular matter. Men can be an insensitive blabs.
Prove me wrong I don’t care..
Half the time I would think boys who are with girls do not take into consideration the things that the girls do for them. Even when the girls do not wish to do what they are asked of.
For example the silliness of thinking that all girls should cook, hence oh if the boy is busy playing a game, it is the rightful duty of the girl to cook something for the lazy oaf. If she doesn’t then he will go into a whine of ooohh you aren’t taking care of me… you would rather see me starve, then and only then will he get off his butt to go and make his own food.. The girl is at a losing end here.. doesn’t matter which she chooses to cook or not to cook, she will be taken for granted.
Oh and another example. I do not understand you men. A girl prefers to look good when she goes out. But the irony is that when she starts going out with you (the boyfriend) too often, she finds her efforts of preening herself in front of the mirror to look good are wasted. The bf will not look at you and go off you look nice. No… he doesn’t say anything.. Rather he will either ask why are you wearing make up or he will not say anything nice at all. Then later when the girlfriend goes out with her friends, and she starts getting all dolled up, he will then say ‘Ohh…. you’ve never dressed up this for me before when we go out..’
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Like WHAT???? WTH are you saying????? We did dress up for you, we did lok nice for you but did you notice? No!! You noticed the next thing with boobs on the street. Like WTH!!! And you can dare say that we didn’t dress up for you. Ho insensitive can you get?
Here’s another example. The girlfriend goes all out and all out to find out ways to help you with a problem, doesn’t matter what it is. She will all various ways to solve it. But what is the boyfriend doing? He is on his darn butt playing on the computer! Another WTH!!!! He won’t even look at the solutions that she has provided rather he goes on another long way to find his own solution. My gosh!! As for the poor girlfriend, not only does she end up with her time wasted.. when she wants help with something, the boyfriend can’t help at all. Why? One because the boyfriend never asks whether the gf wants help, he would rather go on instead to say something that is completely off topic and make matters worse..
So yeah… Men are INSENSITIVE….
Let me fume for the time being… peh!
